Thursday, December 20, 2012
Wednesday, December 19, 2012
Zoo Lights and Utes Win!
We usually check out a lot of lights around town this time of year and actually have never felt it was worth it to pay to look at lights. Last night Grandma and Grandpa invited us to Hogle Zoo's ZooLights. It was so fun, beautiful and full of some great memories. Arian kissed a monkey, Setareh got way too close to a turkey and I got really scared by the BIG tiger on the other side of the glass.
After the Zoo we headed to the Utah Basketball Game. As we drove over to the game we asked Grandpa for the game states - he told us about Southern Methodists coach Larry Brown. We all growned and Ari said, "Does that mean we are going to lose. " And with the lowest of expectations we went to the game. Wow - it was almost a blast from the past. There was almost a crowd, it was loud with cheering AND the Utes pulled off a magnificent win. Great winter fun!!
Dec. 18, 2012
SALT LAKE CITY (AP) - Justin Seymour scored a team-high 11 points, including the go-ahead three-pointer, to lift Utah to a 62-53 win over SMU on Tuesday night.
The freshman teamed with classmate Brandon Taylor to pace the Utes this evening in improving to 7-3 on the season. Taylor, who entered the game with eight points this entire season, scored 10 on 4-of-6 shooting.
Jason Washburn was the other Utah player in double figures with 10 and the team imrpoved to 4-0 when the senior big man hits double figures.The senior also joined some elite company with three blocked shots, moving into fifth place all-time at Utah, tied with Michael Doleac (1994-98)
Seymour, Taylor and Washburn also helped Utah hold an astounding 35-6 advanatage over SMU in bench points, the largest margin this season in that category for the Utes.
The Runnin' Utes shot better than their opponent from the field yet again, something it has done in every game this season, and made 17-of-19 free throws. This was key after the Utes only attempted three freebies in the loss at SMU earlier this year. Utah was also +9 on the glass withJordan Loveridge leading the way for a sixth time this season with seven boards. Utah jumped out to an early 8-2 lead behind a Glen Dean three-pointer and five points from Dallin Bachynski but then went nearly six-and-a-half minutes without scoring a basket. During this time, SMU went on a 10-2 run to take its first lead at 12-10 with 12:27 to go in the half. However, Dean answered with his second three-pointer to give the Utes the lead. SMU went on a 9-0 run before a fast-break layup by Taylor at 6:09 broke the drought. Renan Lentz followed with a three-pointer from the corner that cut the gap to 23-18.
Utah scored on its next five possessions and eventually grabbed the lead on a steal and bucket by Justin Seymour to make the margin 26-25. A 10-0 Ute run culminated on a layup by Aaron Dotson with 1:53 showing on the clock.
Another Taylor trifecta gave Utah the 31-28 advantage heading to the lockers. The freshman led the Utes in the first half with seven points.
After Utah scored the first bucket of the half, SMU went on an 8-0 run to take a 36-33 run. Washburn's first field goal of the game would give the Utes a lead once more at 41-40 with 11:51 remaining. The Runnin' Utes remained in front, but could not increase the lead, despite holding SMU to one hoop over a span of 6:23. An emphatic Washburn dunk brought the crowd to its feet and forced a Mustang timeout, trailing 47-44. With the game tied, 47-47, Seymour converted a jumper to give Utah a two-point cushion. After SMU evened things again, Seymour hit a three-pointer for a 54-51 lead.
After a stop and Utah timeout, Loveridge rebounded a Jarred DuBois miss and converted with the shot clock expiring for a five-point edge. After SMU scored to make it a one-possession game, its bench was assessed two technical fouls.
After six-consecutive free throws, Utah was able to run out the clock and earn the win, 62-53.
Utah remains at home this weekend when it hosts Cal-State Northridge at 8:30 p.m. The Utes will be honoring the 1944 Utah team as part of the NCAA's 75th Anniversary of March Madness.
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Dec. 18, 2012
SALT LAKE CITY (AP) - Justin Seymour scored a team-high 11 points, including the go-ahead three-pointer, to lift Utah to a 62-53 win over SMU on Tuesday night.
The freshman teamed with classmate Brandon Taylor to pace the Utes this evening in improving to 7-3 on the season. Taylor, who entered the game with eight points this entire season, scored 10 on 4-of-6 shooting.
Jason Washburn was the other Utah player in double figures with 10 and the team imrpoved to 4-0 when the senior big man hits double figures.The senior also joined some elite company with three blocked shots, moving into fifth place all-time at Utah, tied with Michael Doleac (1994-98)
Seymour, Taylor and Washburn also helped Utah hold an astounding 35-6 advanatage over SMU in bench points, the largest margin this season in that category for the Utes.
Utah scored on its next five possessions and eventually grabbed the lead on a steal and bucket by Justin Seymour to make the margin 26-25. A 10-0 Ute run culminated on a layup by Aaron Dotson with 1:53 showing on the clock.
Another Taylor trifecta gave Utah the 31-28 advantage heading to the lockers. The freshman led the Utes in the first half with seven points.
After Utah scored the first bucket of the half, SMU went on an 8-0 run to take a 36-33 run. Washburn's first field goal of the game would give the Utes a lead once more at 41-40 with 11:51 remaining. The Runnin' Utes remained in front, but could not increase the lead, despite holding SMU to one hoop over a span of 6:23. An emphatic Washburn dunk brought the crowd to its feet and forced a Mustang timeout, trailing 47-44. With the game tied, 47-47, Seymour converted a jumper to give Utah a two-point cushion. After SMU evened things again, Seymour hit a three-pointer for a 54-51 lead.
After a stop and Utah timeout, Loveridge rebounded a Jarred DuBois miss and converted with the shot clock expiring for a five-point edge. After SMU scored to make it a one-possession game, its bench was assessed two technical fouls.
After six-consecutive free throws, Utah was able to run out the clock and earn the win, 62-53.
Utah remains at home this weekend when it hosts Cal-State Northridge at 8:30 p.m. The Utes will be honoring the 1944 Utah team as part of the NCAA's 75th Anniversary of March Madness.
Tuesday, December 18, 2012
Elephants are Ants: What Matters
I have some grieving, some personal grieving that makes me feel angry from time to time. There are some big elephants walking around in my life. With Sandy Hook 4 days fresh in my mind, my elephants seem like ants in the scope of the world. I freak out over Setareh's homework not being done, Arian wearing clothes filled with holes and with Siamak over lots of stuff...and then I am reminded how lucky I am to have these frets. I am very very fortunate with the abundance in my life.
Monday, December 17, 2012
Weekend of Anguish
OP-ED COLUMNIST
Do We Have the Courage to Stop This?
By NICHOLAS D. KRISTOF
Published: December 15, 2012
IN the harrowing aftermath of the school shooting in Connecticut, one thought wells in my mind: Why can’t we regulate guns as seriously as we do cars?
Damon Winter/The New York Times
Nicholas D. Kristof
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The fundamental reason kids are dying in massacres like this one is not that we have lunatics or criminals — all countries have them — but that we suffer from a political failure to regulate guns.
Children ages 5 to 14 in America are 13 times as likely to be murdered with guns as children in other industrialized countries, according toDavid Hemenway, a public health specialist at Harvard who has written an excellent book on gun violence.
So let’s treat firearms rationally as the center of a public health crisis that claims one life every 20 minutes. The United States realistically isn’t going to ban guns, but we can take steps to reduce the carnage.
American schoolchildren are protected by building codes that govern stairways and windows. School buses must meet safety standards, and the bus drivers have to pass tests. Cafeteria food is regulated for safety. The only things we seem lax about are the things most likely to kill.
The Occupational Safety and Health Administration has five pages of regulations about ladders, while federal authorities shrug at serious curbs on firearms. Ladders kill around 300 Americans a year, and guns 30,000.
We even regulate toy guns, by requiring orange tips — but lawmakers don’t have the gumption to stand up to National Rifle Association extremists and regulate real guns as carefully as we do toys. What do we make of the contrast between heroic teachers who stand up to a gunman and craven, feckless politicians who won’t stand up to the N.R.A.?
As one of my Facebook followers wrote after I posted about the shooting, “It is more difficult to adopt a pet than it is to buy a gun.”
Look, I grew up on an Oregon farm where guns were a part of life; and my dad gave me a .22 rifle for my 12th birthday. I understand: shooting is fun! But so is driving, and we accept that we must wear seat belts, use headlights at night, and fill out forms to buy a car. Why can’t we be equally adult about regulating guns?
And don’t say that it won’t make a difference because crazies will always be able to get a gun. We’re not going to eliminate gun deaths, any more than we have eliminated auto accidents. But if we could reduce gun deaths by one-third, that would be 10,000 lives saved annually.
Likewise, don’t bother with the argument that if more people carried guns, they would deter shooters or interrupt them. Mass shooters typically kill themselves or are promptly caught, so it’s hard to see what deterrence would be added by having more people pack heat. There have been few if any cases in the United States in which an ordinary citizen with a gun stopped a mass shooting.
The tragedy isn’t one school shooting, it’s the unceasing toll across our country. More Americans die in gun homicides and suicides in six months than have died in the last 25 years in every terrorist attack and the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq combined.
So what can we do? A starting point would be to limit gun purchases to one a month, to curb gun traffickers. Likewise, we should restrict the sale of high-capacity magazines so that a shooter can’t kill as many people without reloading.
We should impose a universal background check for gun buyers, even with private sales. Let’s make serial numbers more difficult to erase, and back California in its effort to require that new handguns imprint a microstamp on each shell so that it can be traced back to a particular gun.
“We’ve endured too many of these tragedies in the past few years,” President Obama noted in a tearful statement on television. He’s right, but the solution isn’t just to mourn the victims — it’s to change our policies. Let’s see leadership on this issue, not just moving speeches.
Other countries offer a road map. In Australia in 1996, a mass killing of 35 people galvanized the nation’s conservative prime minister to ban certain rapid-fire long guns. The “national firearms agreement,” as it was known, led to the buyback of 650,000 guns and to tighter rules for licensing and safe storage of those remaining in public hands.
The law did not end gun ownership in Australia. It reduced the number of firearms in private hands by one-fifth, and they were the kinds most likely to be used in mass shootings.
In the 18 years before the law, Australia suffered 13 mass shootings — but not one in the 14 years after the law took full effect. The murder rate with firearms has dropped by more than 40 percent, according to data compiled by the Harvard Injury Control Research Center, and the suicide rate with firearms has dropped by more than half.
Or we can look north to Canada. It now requires a 28-day waiting period to buy a handgun, and it imposes a clever safeguard: gun buyers should have the support of two people vouching for them.
For that matter, we can look for inspiration at our own history on auto safety. As with guns, some auto deaths are caused by people who break laws or behave irresponsibly. But we don’t shrug and say, “Cars don’t kill people, drunks do.”
Instead, we have required seat belts, air bags, child seats and crash safety standards. We have introduced limited licenses for young drivers and tried to curb the use of mobile phones while driving. All this has reduced America’s traffic fatality rate per mile driven by nearly 90 percent since the 1950s.
Some of you are alive today because of those auto safety regulations. And if we don’t treat guns in the same serious way, some of you and some of your children will die because of our failure.
Friday, December 14, 2012
Holiday Workout
Everyone is looking forward to the holiday rest. Setareh has had her 1st semester as a SALTA student come to a close today. It's been a big adjustment and a lot of hard work. Martinelli's in order for her and celebration of commitment to high achievement!
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
12-12-12 Happy 50th Steve Leo
The fact that Siamak and Steve have been friends since Sayeh was born 23 years ago is amazing. Duders and all of the Leo family have been a great part of Siamak's life. The funny thing about 23 years ago is that I had a most memorable summer as a camp counselor at the JCC with Diane Leo - I think it was 1984 or 85 -I have vivid memories of Girls 6 camping, and watching MTV in Natty Leo's basement. It was very Small Lake City to come to find 10 years later that Siamak and Di's older brother Steve were best friends. Dave Leo was dating Mindy____ who worked at Cohne Rappaport and Segal during those years of Jewish Geography.Great family and great surprise party last night at Caputos. I complimented Tammy on scheduling the weather so well. Super fun!
Monday, December 10, 2012
Hanukkah oh Hanukkah
Hanukkah oh Hanukkah we'll all dance the Horah (especially if Siamak is nearby).
I have some thought about Hanukkah...1st, Arian has been singing the above refrain over and over thus STUCK in my head...I can't get it out, it's Constant). My other thoughts are probably going to offend a few family and friends who read this once published (please accept my advanced apologies). I get so annoyed by the Hanukkah = Christmas stuff. ERRR!!! I am sure that's why our multicultural home works for me! Hanukkah is supposed to be fun, light and rather subtle. My friends and relatives who are attempting to celebrate Hanukkah as this = Christmas deal miss the subtlety which really really annoys me.
I love that James and Leigh got Christmas Tree Ornaments for the 1st night of Hanukkah - HILARIOUS!!! See, subtle and to the point. Since Christine asked that only 1 gift be sent I decided that would be great...I hope the Maui Snorkling trip is worth it...My mom and dad seemed excited and liked the gift. Siamak seems very uncomfortable with it. I will make Latkes for dinner one night this week - I was ready to so but Siamak sans rice for 3 days made coutlet and rice for dinner instead. It is rare that I want to cook so I was a little insulted that I didn't get to cook last night, but the coutlet was really yummy. C'est la vie!
A Mazel Tov and Sim'n Tov!!! Rachel and Phil
It's been a long few years for my dear friend Rachel! When we met in 1990 in Tel Aviv- who knew 22 years later where we would be in life. Happy and content with Phil and the 3 kids is where my dear friend Rachel is today! I was thrilled Siamak and I could attend the beautiful wedding 12/8/12. I have NEVER seen Rachel more beautiful and happy. I included a picture of the pedicured toes because - I have only seen old running shoes on this girl (which she wore Sunday morning to brunch...- the Rachel I know and love). Visiting Denver - for our 24 hour sneak away was incredible. Easy flights, great food, a visit with Sandi and wonderful ceremony and celebration! Siamak and I hadn't been away alone, without an agenda in almost 2 years! With our Fiat 500 we had our little European Vacation!
Gift of Life.. Get Tissue Ready Before Reading
Organ donation unites Salt Lake City, Paraguayan families
Transplant » Organ donation unites Salt Lake City, Paraguayan families.
By David Montero | The Salt Lake Tribune (Front Page)
First Published Dec 09 2012 01:01 Am • Updated 3 Hours Ago
Darkness swallowed the room, tears filled her eyes and, for the briefest of moments, Mirta López had her daughter back.
"Sí! Sí!" she cried. "So beautiful."
López watched the beating heart on the grainy echocardiogram — the screen’s glow lighting her wide smile and glistening cheeks. In a chair, Pame Caballero, her youngest daughter, sobbed softly.
The technician steadied the wand on Allyson Gamble’s chest as she lay curled up on the hospital bed against the wall. Gamble squeezed López’s hand. Tight.
"She’s taking good care of me," Gamble said.
"It was meant to be for you," López replied.
For the long minutes that followed, the two just gazed at each other. Mirta López had spent 24 hours on three flights across two continents to witness this — her daughter’s heart giving Gamble life. López’s joy, angst and longing were as inseparable as shades of mixed paint. After all, it was only April and she’d just buried her daughter about four months earlier.
The strong, steady pulse that once powered the body of 25-year-old Gabriela Caballero pounded rhythmically in Gamble’s chest. The sound, amplified on speakers, filled the room. Gamble’s husband ducked out for a fresh box of tissues.
Gamble locked eyes with López — mother to mother.
"Thank you," she said.
"Sí," López replied.
‘I was in shock’ » Headlights streamed along State Route 224 past the entrance to Canyons Resort at 5:25 p.m. on Dec. 10, 2011. It was Saturday night and Gabriela Caballero had just finished her day working as a ski concierge and was heading home to her apartment.
It was her third stint working at Canyons — the first being in 2008 — and it was a part of her ongoing love affair with the United States that began when she was a child. Those were times her dad brought back souvenirs from trips to America.
As a young adult, she had traveled to New York, San Francisco and San Diego, with scant interest in seeing other parts of the world. The trips to Utah began when friends who had worked in Park City on visas during the winter months would come back to Asunción and rave about the wide mix of shopping and restaurants. Her sister said Gabriela saw the Utah trip as a break from being a lawyer in Paraguay.
"This was fun for her," Pame Caballero said. "She worked hard and she loved being here."
Though she worked two jobs at times and the weekends were busy shuttling guests’ skis or working as a clerk in the gift shop, she enjoyed her free time and was in a hurry to return to the apartment to get dinner.
But as she crossed the dark, busy highway, a southbound car never saw her and slammed into her small frame. The force of the impact was so great it flung her body into the northbound lanes, where another car struck her immediately.
According to the Utah Highway Patrol, she had been wearing dark clothing and was difficult to see as she tried to cross against the light. UHP officials also said she wasn’t entirely within the crosswalk when she stepped into the road. UHP said the drivers weren’t speeding.
Michael Serra, who worked closely with Caballero at the resort, said he didn’t know what was going on when he saw the trail of emergency lights and traffic backing up that evening. It would be several hours before he learned it was his friend Gabriela, who was rushed to the hospital and died.
"I was in shock," Serra said.
In Asunción, López got a phone call in the morning as she was preparing food for a fundraising event at her evangelical church. López, a devout Christian, wept as the voice on the other end of the line told her what had happened. She would later liken the impact of the news to being thrown over a waterfall.
"The doctors told me on Sunday that she was declared brain dead and they asked me if I agreed with organ donation," López said. "They said that they were going to keep her on a ventilator and drugs until I could come and see my daughter."
The family arranged an immediate flight to Salt Lake City.
When López finally arrived — jet-lagged, sleep-deprived and numb — she was taken to her daughter.
What she saw was a battered, bruised, motionless body. She kissed her and stroked her hair. In that moment, she leaned heavily on her faith just as she had in 1993, when her husband died due to kidney failure — even after getting a transplant himself. He was the reason López believed in organ donation. He got three extra years with his family because of that kidney.
López braced herself.
"I saw the left side of her face and the doctors were taking blood samples and, inadvertently, moved her mouth open and that’s when I realized it was not Gaby. It was only her body and she no longer had control of anything. That made me decide there — it was a very strong shock, and I said to the doctor, ‘Enough already’ so that wouldn’t be the memory I had of my Gaby."
It wouldn’t be.
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Transplant families » For decades, contact between families of organ donors and organ recipients was rare.
LaRhonda Clayville, a nurse practitioner at the University of Washington, commissioned one of the first studies on families of organ donors who met recipients and said the practice was "virtually nonexistent" a decade ago.
The protocols tilt toward anonymity as both sides would write letters and use an organ-procurement agency as a go-between to communicate. It only takes one side expressing disinterest in meeting to shut down the process.
Throw in the 1996 Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act — which has the effect of wrapping patients in a virtually impenetrable cocoon of privacy — along with vague information given to recipients revealing only sex and approximate age to further cloak participants.
But recently, the rise of social media and near-ubiquitous access to the Internet have turned curious families — both of organ recipients and donors — into cyber-sleuths parsing clues to solve the mystery.
Pam Albert, director of donor family services for New England Organ Bank, has been working on uniting families for more than 20 years and said that in-person connections still remain the exception rather than the rule — noting only about 5 percent actually end up meeting.
She said that’s up from several years ago, when both sides might craft a letter to each other and give it to the organ-procurement agency. Often, that’s where it ended.
"Now, between care pages, Facebook, Twitter or if it’s a slow news week and there’s a traffic accident story on the Internet, it’s pretty easy to put things together," Albert said. "Sometimes people find out looking through the obituaries, too."
Dixie Madsen, public education supervisor for Intermountain Donor Services, said her organization usually recommends waiting a year for families to meet, though there are exceptions.
Clayville agreed.
"It’s important to honor the grieving process and many people aren’t ready to meet before a year, though there are some strong individuals who can," she said. "But I agree with the year wait."
Going back to 1988, there have been 1,028 heart transplants in Utah, according to the Organ Procurement and Transplantation Network. In 2011, there were 36, including Gamble’s.
Gamble and the López-Caballero family connected on Facebook a little more than a month after the transplant, though Gamble had already figured out whose heart she got. Just three days after her surgery, she had asked her dad to bring his laptop after asking hospital staff about the donor.
She was simply told the donor was a female in her 20s.
With the computer, she noted a news item about a woman from Paraguay named Gabriela Caballero killed in a traffic accident. Gamble figured she likely had her heart. But she didn’t pursue it further until she got a call in January from Intermountain Donor Services saying the family of the heart donor would like to initiate contact.
Gamble said she didn’t even wait to talk to her husband. She agreed right away.
"Suddenly, I had all of these [Facebook] friend requests from Paraguay and Peru — and I didn’t speak Spanish," Gamble said. "It was the middle of the night and all of these messages started coming through. It was so beautiful — their outpouring of love and friendship — and they wanted me to know what an incredible person Gaby was."
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Brown eyes, big smile » The big brown eyes were what most people noticed about Gabriela Caballero. Then the long, brown hair and the smile — a big one reminiscent of Anne Hathaway — that drew people in.
She was so popular in her Asunción neighborhood, more than 300 people showed up on Christmas Day for her funeral. She was buried next to her father, who died when Gaby was 7.
Not long after the funeral, Pame Caballero decided she would go to work at Canyons just as her sister did.
She arrived last week and, after a reunion with the Gamble family, began training for the concierge job. On a cold, rainy Sunday evening sitting in her small apartment, she gazed at pictures of her sister on her laptop. On her smartphone, she played "Paradise" by her sister’s favorite group, Coldplay.
Pame Caballero remembered how her sister used to sleep with her when she was scared of ghosts. How they used to talk about boys and watch their favorite TV shows "CSI," "Grey’s Anatomy" and reruns of "Friends." How Gaby, when she was 13, decided she hated cats after one came into the house and killed her parrot. ("We found the feathers. She cried," Pame Caballero said).
She smiled as she remembered how Gaby always — since she was a little girl — had a glass of chocolate milk for breakfast. Pame Caballero does the same. She still longs to hear Gaby call out "Pa-la-la" — her sister’s nickname for her.
"I miss her on her birthday and on my birthday," Pame Caballero said. "But, really, I miss her every day."
The family still hasn’t touched her stuff in her bedroom. Her clothes remain folded in the drawers of her dresser.
Her mother can’t bear the thought of packing them away.
"It is like she is on one of her trips and is coming back," López said. "But I know she is not. But it strengthens us to see things as she left them."
Family members also draw strength from Gamble, who said she feels she’s been given the gift of time with her 11-year-old son and her husband.
Gamble said she’d like to visit Paraguay and see where the López and Caballero families live and meet them. She’d like to let Gaby’s heart go home for a visit. But travel isn’t possible yet. Gamble still takes close to 30 pills a day as her body continues to adjust to the new organ. That’s down from 60 pills after the transplant. She goes in every few weeks to have blood drawn, an adventure as nurses struggle to find strong veins not collapsed from repeated needle sticks.
At her job as executive director of the Capitol Preservation Board, she has to be aware of raised blood pressure and counts on co-workers to manage her stress levels.
She wants to be careful and make this work because, well, she’s been through this before.
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‘You’re going to die’ » It all started with the flu more than 11 years ago.
Gamble was 32 and in great shape. She used a personal trainer regularly and her idea of a good time was rigorous hiking and camping trips with her husband, Jim. And, though the couple struggled to have a child, that changed in late 2000. For eight months, she coasted through her pregnancy.
Then she picked up the flu bug in 2001.
Gamble, not one to be slowed down, plowed ahead at her job and kept her busy schedule, even though at night she noticed her body reacting like a rubber band losing elasticity. After weeks of feeling under the weather, she eventually lacked energy to take off her shoes. An initial prognosis was dehydration, so she drank lots of fluids. She was also given an IV through a home-care nurse.
On the day Ben was born, the doctors gave her bad news. The flu virus had started an irreversible insurrection inside her body, narrowing arteries and slowing everything down while her heart ballooned to four times its normal size. Fluids were backing up in her system.
"You’re drowning," the doctor told her.
But, more important, she was in the midst of heart failure — a condition she would cope with for about six years by taking a battery of medicines. By 2007, she was battling severe stomachaches and chronic heavy legs. Breathing was labored. She looked like she was pregnant again as her stomach swelled.
It was time to go to the hospital again.
Gamble said when she arrived, the doctor brought down the hammer: "You can’t get out of this bed. You’re going to die."
Two days later, on April 16, 2007, a heart became available and she got her first transplant. She never knew the donor. All she knew was the heart lasted for about a year before her body began to reject it. For the few years that followed until late 2011, Gamble’s body steadily eroded the organ.
Gamble said she wasn’t sure she’d get another chance. She had begun a few years earlier having difficult conversations with her then-7-year-old son, who had asked her if she was going to die. She vowed to "make memories" with him as much as she could.
"I think a lot about those times because that was scary, uncertain and a horrifying time," she said, "because I felt I wanted to see Ben grow and get to see him go to college."
Then, late in the afternoon on Dec. 12, 2011, while answering emails in her office at the Utah Capitol, the phone rang. The voice on the other end asked if she was sitting down. A heart had become available.
Would she like it?
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The most beautiful things » The families sat out on the Gamble patio in Salt Lake City on a cool evening in April, and Yolanda Mohebbi, a longtime friend of Gamble, did her best to translate for López. It was difficult. Mohebbi cried as López and Gamble exchanged necklaces with hearts and stories about their lives. They wore bracelets that Gamble had inscribed to read, "The most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or touched, they must be felt with the heart."
Jim Gamble, who loves to cook, busily prepared a feast of salmon, soup and salad. Nancy White, Allyson Gamble’s mother, effusively thanked López for her daughter.
Ben Gamble, a quiet boy, smiled shyly as López fussed over him and asked about his life. He told them about how he played soccer — a passion Gaby had — and how he liked school a lot. He said when they were all ready, he had been working for several weeks on a prayer that he wanted to say before both families sat at the table for dinner.
As they filed inside, they formed a circle in the living room and held hands. The boy, his hand quivering and voice cracking, looked down at his sheet of paper and began to read as quiet music played in the background.
"Gaby is now with us forever," he said, "but at the same time, she is looking down upon us in heaven with God. She will now rest in peace."
López smiled through tears. She held him tightly.
"Thank you for my mother," the boy said.
"Sí," she said.
Wednesday, December 5, 2012
1st Place!!!
Delicious boy deserved MUCH MUCH better than to be standing next to trash can in the cafeteria for recognition of his AWESOME accomplishment! Arian is the District 1st Place winner for Music in the Canyons School District. Our family could not be more proud!!! Way to go big boy!!! Lesson learned by Utah PTA: Don't make Bruce Cohne angry by not honoring his grandson with proper accolades.
Tuesday, December 4, 2012
Monday, December 3, 2012
Weekend Wrap-Up

Our weekends are a little less busy than in the fall. Friday night services with Mom and Setareh...short and sweet - perfect! Dinner after with those two gals at Cafe Rio made for a nice night. Then, early morning soccer for Setareh, Siamak new iphone class and Farsi for Ari filled our Saturday. Siamak still trying to recover from cold...now I think gone Bronchitis we still headed for the movies just to get out of the house. We all enjoyed the Odd Life of Timothy Green...I know Sia and I had same thoughts about a boy who rocks, scores winning goal (LOL) in soccer, is brutally honest and has great sense of humor. I think we all really enjoyed this sweet film. Sunday was nice to wrap up the weekend with a Boggle tournament with Pete and Sahar. Competition! Arian's Verf and Sia's abbreviation for Verf = V along with Setareh's gods and goddesses with great conviction made the evening memorable and quite fun!
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